Still Lonely in a World of 8 Billion?

Why the right people change everything — and how to finally find them.

Good Lord.

There are 8 billion+ people on this planet…surely some of them are perfect for you.

So why do we settle for toxic?

Why do we compromise relationally?

Why do we let average become “good enough”?

You’re probably thinking about this in terms of personal life…

But what about work?

Why bother separating work and personal? What if we just called it your sphere, and asked one question:

“Who are the people you’re intentionally — or accidentally — surrounding yourself with?”

Because here’s the thing:

Accidental relationships are a dangerous game.
Your life will never improve by accident.
Improvements are only ever made by design.

We settle for dull, toxic, or average relationships for three reasons:

1. We don’t value ourselves enough to believe we deserve great people.

2. We don’t have strong enough boundaries to keep the filth out.

3. We’ve lost faith, and stopped believing brilliant people exist.

Please… no more settling.

There are 8 billion people on Earth. There are more than enough great ones.

Imperfect perfect ones. Life-giving ones.. for you.

Our Sphere Builder system is built on this truth:

Your life will radically change when you choose to build an outer circle of just 100 catalytic people.

Let’s look at this practically — let’s play the imagination game.

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If you're in real estate...

Imagine tearing up your cold-calling script.
Quitting the hustle.
Letting go of toxic clients who pay well but treat you like they’re wearing your watch on their wrist.

Now picture this:

You’re surrounded by 100 warm, generous, life-giving people —
who buy and sell at your highest price point,
who value your time and talent,
who tell all their friends about you.

Is that a better life?

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Or maybe you're a coach or a writer —
You’ve got an important message to give.

Imagine never again working with people who haggle over price…
who resist the work…
who say “maybe later” to their own growth.

What if instead you were surrounded by 100 aligned humans who:

• Resonate deeply with your message

• Love your tools

• Implement your ideas

• Evangelize your work to the world

Which world would you prefer?

The one where you scrap… Or the one you intentionally build?

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None of this is impossible.

I’ve spent the last year designing models, frameworks, and tools to help you create it.

One of them is called The Dinner Guest Paradigm™.

I'm teaching it to our paid supporter in a private workshop this week. And we will give you access to test-drive our People Picker™, an AI tool that helps you identify the warm, life-giving humans in your current sphere.

Let’s start the process now. Let’s not waste any more time. For the paid supporters ($5/month) there is a short training video below to introduce the model.

Introducing the Dinner Guest Paradigm™